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婚姻是一杯白开水  

2010-04-09 13:49:44|  分类: 胡言乱语 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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        常和朋友谈起婚姻,有人说婚姻是一本书,无论封面包装如何精致,只有打开这本书之后,慢慢品读才知道这本书是否精彩。

       有人说婚姻是一驾马车,只有当我们成为驭手的时候,我们才知道把控婚姻的方向是那么的不易,如何经营婚姻成为一生的课题。

       有人说婚姻是一座殿堂,当我们怀着美好梦想步入殿堂的时候,我们会被富丽堂皇的殿堂所吸引,所迷惑,在很多的时候我们不知所措,而当我们逐渐清醒的时候,人生已经步入不惑之年。

        我却常把婚姻比成一本白开水,看似每个人都能看透,其实,之间每个人的看法却千差万别。婚姻是一杯白开水 - 水中树 - 水中树

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